Mental fitness: 'Let's Talk About It'
‘1 in 4 people, like me have a mental health problem. Many more people have a problem with that.‘
Stephen Fry
I was recently asked by the Oaktree Clinic to write a blog for their page. In the midst of myriad of thoughts, the Podcast (Bryony Gordon’s: Mad World) in which Prince Harry talks about his counselling that he sought after 20 years, could not have come at a better time! Yes let’s talk about stigma in mental illness.
In the interview, the Prince, who is now 32, talks of seeking help after 20 years and especially enduring ‘total chaos’ for two years that affected both his personal and professional life. He could not be persuaded to talk of his emotions earlier by his older brother, Prince William.
He talks of his emotional state very normally and openly. The big question is: why it took him so long to seek help? Bryony Gordon equally makes a very powerful statement- “It is perfectly normal to be weird. Actually, it may be weirder to feel perfectly normal”.
One in four of us suffer from some sort of emotional problem at some point in life. This tells us that emotional problems are common. So why don’t we talk about it?
Mental health illnesses are a leading cause of disability. If not caught early and treated, leads to problematic interpersonal and family functioning. The life expectancy is also lowered. Aforementioned problems are preventable. However help-seeking, is either delayed or void. To nip-in-the-bud, remains a public challenge till this date.
In a recent study that reviewed most of the stigma related studies in depth. Help-seeking behaviour is found to be influenced by four types of common stigmas; perceived public stigma (perception about a person who has a mental illness endorsed collectively by members of the general population), personal stigma (personal attitude towards a stigmatised group), self-stigma (endorses stereotypes, believes to be devalued member of the society and anticipates social rejection) and attitudes towards help-seeking (self perception about need for help). You can well see how multifaceted stigma is.
The significant finding in the recent review is that the ‘attitude towards a behaviour are associated with engaging in the behaviour itself in other situation’. In other words, people with ‘personal stigma’ tend to avoid contact with stigmatised group and therefore abstain from seeking help. Other stigma that influenced negatively is ‘attitude towards help seeking’. This group believes that the battle could be won on his/her own and also has low perceived need for help. It is indeed not uncommon to find that people would recommend seeking professional help for emotional problems or may report an intention to ask help when affected by mental health problems themselves. Unfortunately when it comes to ‘walk the walk’, a considerable low proportion of people would actually ask help.
Last but not the least, we ought to encourage people to talk about emotional problems, encourage help-seeking, educate on treatment options and long-term adversaries of untreated mental health problems.
Prince Harry has made a start, kudos to the young man!
I look forward to 9 more Podcasts in which Bryony Gordon would talk to high profile people, who would talk about their mental health issues.
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Here at The Oaktree Clinic we are never ones to rest on our past achievements. We always strive to be the best and up-to-date mental healthcare team we can be. This attitude to be the best has lead our clinicians to continue their training through the process of CPD.
CPD stands for Continuing Professional Development. Simply put, it is “the holistic commitment of professionals towards the enhancement of personal skills and proficiency throughout their careersâ€.
Five times a year our various mental health professionals meet up for a sharing of knowledge. Previous presentations have covered various far-reaching disciplines of mental health, from Neuropsychiatry, Child and Adolescent psychiatry to CBT, Mindfulness and much more. Each presentation, devised by our team, expands and updates our clinicians already vast knowledge base.
While it would be easy to assume that with seven plus years training to become a qualified mental health expert would be enough education to last anyone a lifetime, our CPD sessions at Oaktree reinforce our skills, knowledge and make sure that you the client get a better experience.
The Oaktree Clinic is celebrating World Mental Health Day by treating all those attending to a 20 minute free session of the famous Mindfulness therapy with tea and Prosecco on Friday the 14th of October.
The Oaktree Clinic is the only service that can offer this ground breaking, innovative, side effect and pain free treatment in the West Midlands. It works by producing a strong magnetic field near the area of the brain responsible for the symptoms of depression, hence stimulating the brain cells. The client is wide awake during administration as anaesthesia is not required to undergo this treatment. It is a highly effective treatment for those who either do not respond to conventional treatment or cannot take or do not wish to take antidepressant medication or psychotherapy.
Whilst being a well used intervention in Canada, Australia, New Zealand, the European Union, Israel and the United States, the UK has now started to embrace rTMS. The treatment has recently been recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) for treatment of depression.
At the London Psychiatry Centre the results from rTMS are very impressive with 74.2% of women and 58% of men recovering from the symptoms of depression in 4.3 weeks of treatment. With the same treatment protocols and supervision we are confident of success of this treatment at The Oaktree Clinic.
We are currently taking referrals and carry out assessments and the treatment. If you believe that rTMS is the treatment for you,